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Experts say that oral communication is composed of several different attributes:
Words, tone of voice and non-verbal clues.
Some of these have more effect on the delivery of the message than others.
According to research, in a conversation or verbal exchange:
Words = 7% of the Message
Tone of Voice = 38%
In other words, WHAT you say…
…is not nearly as important as HOW you say it!
And remember that especially in phone conversations.
Don’t call someone when you are angry or upset.
Other Contributing Factors
Body Language
Voice Quality
Animation
Eye Contact
Energy
Time and Place
Rhythm and Pace
Attitude and Confidence
Rapport
Subject Knowledge
Clarity
Communication is something we all do.
But it is more complicated than we realize—if it is done well.
Rotary International’s 4-Way Test
Rotary International has a 4-way test of the things we think, say or do:
Is it the truth?
Is it fair to all concerned?
Will it bring goodwill and better friendships?
Will it be beneficial for all?
And remember…
Never miss a good chance to shut up.